Dating a jamaican woman
They claim that they are just partying and that it doesn’t mean anything and women should not be tight strung about men going clubbing with their male friends.
I sat on the veranda during the recent torrential downpour listening to my spouse and his friends discussing women and why they thought that Jamaican women do not understand 'themselves'.
If you are the wife, you should not be concerned with the assorted women he sleeps with on the side since you are the one that he comes home to every night.
Women should turn a blind eye to their liaisons and infidelities if you are his main chick. Men hate when women invade their private space and they do not want to answer to their indiscretions.
I sat on the veranda during the recent torrential downpour listening to my spouse and his friends discussing women and why they thought that Jamaican women do not understand “themselves”.
I asked them what were some of the issues they wished women understood that would make their relationships more cohesive and fulfilling.
They want a partner that can bring some money to the table. They don’t need a parasitic partner but a symbiosis in their relationship.
Men are no longer “looking inna face” when it comes to relationships.“Anything you get, you must take, you went looking for something and you got what you were searching for”4. Do not think that when your Jamaican man starts having sex with you, its a license for you to go ahead and get pregnant and tie him down.Your Jamaican man wants to enjoy you and he wants to have fun with you before you decide to get big and bloated.This is the reason why he may be forced to insult and humiliate you so that he can retrieve his masculinity and peer validation.It is best to acquiesce and make him look good in front of friends.