Dating tips for infp
Update 5/28/2018 — My ENFP boyfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago.
I’m updating this post with a couple additional points touching on the ways INFJs and ENFPs can experience stress in their relationship.
Plus, they’re also what tends to come out when we’re under stress.
A stressed INFJ’s inferior Se tends to see the outer world as threatening and may overindulge in sensory things like eating and watching TV.
ENFPs and INFJs both lead with Intuition as their dominant and best-developed learning function.
They both have Feeling as the co-pilot process they used to make decisions.
An ENFP’s inferior Si, on the other hand, tends more toward withdrawal and worry.
they might both find that keeping track of practical thing like money is a challenge), but at least you’re not living with someone who finds one of your favorite ways of viewing the world stressful.In contrast, introverted intuition processes observations internally.Both functions care about finding patterns and coming to a deeper understanding, but Ne experiments while Ni ruminates.Once upon a time, I told my sister, “I don’t think I’d ever date an ENFP.” Even though I’d seen lots of people describing ENFP-INFJ as a “perfect” pairing it just didn’t sound like a good fit for me.I loved having ENFP friends, but the ones I knew were either so intense they made me feel anxious, or so extroverted they wore me out, or too scattered for me to think I wouldn’t eventually get irritated with them in a closer relationship (or all of the above).